Jakub Sobotka — founder of I Choose You

Jakub Sobotka

Founder & Developer · I Choose You

I built I Choose You because I kept noticing the same thing: couples who clearly loved each other deeply, but rarely showed it in any concrete way on a given Tuesday. Love was assumed. Presence was taken for granted. The feeling of being actively chosen — that your partner thought of you today, on purpose — had quietly disappeared from daily life.

"Most couples don't have a communication problem. They have a visibility problem. Love is there — it's just invisible."

I'm an indie developer based in Europe. I started building I Choose You as a small experiment: what if a couple sent each other one honest question each day? Not "how was your day?" — but something that actually required you to think, reflect, and reveal a little of yourself.

What started as that small experiment is now used by 3,700+ couples around the world. They use it to feel close on busy days, to learn things about each other after years together, to make long-distance feel less distant, and to turn love from something they feel into something they do — every day, in two minutes.

I Choose You is not a therapy app. It is not a communication course. It does not assume your relationship is broken. It's for couples who are good, and want to be great. Couples who want to feel chosen — not just loved.

3,700+ couples using the app
5.0 App Store rating
33 themed question packs
2 min average daily ritual